Yes, there is a lot that is broken in the world today; most that is broken will never be fixed! We don’t live in a utopia. Humans have, and will continue to have, many problems that they have to live with, overcome, ignore…somehow, or they will always be broken. Some make it, some don’t!
There is no ‘one size/answer’ that will fit or fix all.
If you think you are broken then NOTHING WILL HELP YOU!
You are a doomed unit. If every waking moment of your life is filled with doom and gloom ERUPTING at every broken thing in the world you might has well just give it all up! But wait…
many use the doom and gloom and the triggers as a MEANS of staying alive and saying that I’m still alive! These types are NOT happy unless they are BROKEN. They love their BROKENNESS and look for opportunities to stay in touch with their BROKENNESS.
Your mind is your best friend or your worst enemy…it’s up to you how you use your mind.
Found the following, by legitmatebastard, who is Joan M Wheeler/Doris M Sippel,
and who can’t or won’t TURN OFF her BROKENNESS.
https://theadoptedones.wordpress.com/2018/06/23/broken/
I present my commentary first (not placed on that blog post) and then Joan’s (which is on that blog post) after mine.
Sure, this immigration policy sucks! It’s wrong! But to internalize it and make it YOUR’S is also wrong!
Joan/Doris is guilty of sucking up tax-payers dollars with Medicaid paid mental health therapy for DECADES. She NEVER gets better because she looks for and feeds off of every trigger she can find. Why aren’t people outraged at that? She uses PTSD and therapy as a life-style!
I sure hope that the ‘job’ she has is known to Social Services Disability! And that her check is deducted accordingly for the $$$ she is earning! Are the Social Services Police agencies checking on her status? Sure hope so for she’s a drain on the Federal Budget!
She and others like her believe they are the only ones to EVER have suffered from any kind of separation anxiety!
I was
separated from my mother via death and later from my father, because of several broken family circumstances. I lived in a foster home! I was
separated from my siblings! And yes I suffered from
separation anxiety issues as well! But dammit those events do NOT run my life.
Joan/Doris didn’t give a thought to how
she was causing ‘separation anxiety’ between me and my minor children, when she decided that they NEEDED to be removed from me, because she BELIEVED that I was an unfit mother! Why?? Because I was
adopting! She didn’t care how MY children felt, then or now, about how SHE destroyed our family unit and my children’s lives. She NEVER thinks about how
she caused SEPARATION ANXIETY to my children!
Joan/Doris didn’t give any thoughts about how
she was causing ‘separation anxiety’ between herself and her children when she routinely IGNORED them to write her fucking lying book! Or when she screamed at them for being little kids, or when she screamed at their father for being a lousy father/husband! Both Joan’s children have had NOTHING to do with her for decades!
Joan hasn’t a thread of authenticity to comment on ANYTHING. She is a broken sick person, by her own admission. Joan is a walking SEPARATION ANXIETY POST CHILD and she LOVES it.
So if she wants to stay sick STAY sick and let every trigger get to her.
Hope she NEVER has a minute of peace!
But…if she wants peace, then she NEEDS to stop thinking she is BROKEN and turn that process around. Get a life! Find a life! ...End
Joan’s
legitimatebastard June 24, 2018 at 3:10 am
I’ve been having nightmares, crying at odd times – while driving or doing chores, and feeling anxiety all the time. It’s the constant feeling of re-living my own loses as that infant who lost her entire family, coupled with seeing or hearing the cries of the children being separated now. I’m triggered back to a space I’d rather not be. Sure, we can write our blogs, work on activism, reflect one our own lives as adoptees, yet, for me, that stuff doesn’t effect my day to day life as this new, immigrant separation news does. I brought this to my therapist’s attention. We both know I’m back into PTSD reactions.
I feel so sad for these children, and for their parents. And then I just get numb. Can’t do anything about it all, then I shut down.
I hate it all.
Sometimes, when I think my life is normal, that I have a normal day at work, for example, I come home to realize, no, no, what happened to me is not normal. It is not normal to be separated from your family at infancy to be raised with a new name and family. It’s not normal what these children and parents are going through. This is a mess.
End of her statement.
End of post
