narcissist

 This one sentence explains your entire relationship with a narcissist.

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A narcissist is a victim of everything,

responsible for nothing,

offended by everything,

contributing nothing,

yet entitled to absolutely everything.

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Let that sink in.

Victim of everything - they will tell the world how YOU hurt THEM, even though they were the one who lied, cheated, and abused.

Responsible for nothing - nothing is ever their fault. It's always you, your past, your tone, your reaction.

Offended by everything - set a boundary? You're disrespectful. Tell the truth? You're attacking them. Ask for accountability? You're "too much."

Contributing nothing - no real love, no real effort, no real repair. Just crumbs, promises, and performance.

Entitled to everything - your time, your body, your forgiveness, your silence, your entire life.

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You spent years trying to reason with someone who lives by this code. No wonder you were exhausted.

You were trying to have a real relationship with someone who only wanted a one-way street where you give everything and they owe nothing.

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